Realize your potential
Envision your dream
Empower yourself
Live your best life
CHARACTER:
gETTING TO KNOW YOUR TRUE IDENTITY
Step into your starring role with unstoppable confidence! Confidence coaching, mindset work, stepping into the person you want to be. This is where the inner transformation begins.
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“What story are you telling yourself today—and is it worthy of your lead role?” Every scene starts in your mind. If you catch yourself thinking, “I’m too behind,” “It’s too late,” or “I don’t know how”—pause. That’s old scripting. Today, flip the scene: “I’m exactly where I’m meant to be. My next step is mine to choose.” Because the plot twist you’re waiting for? It starts with that one line. Notice where your thoughts are dragging you into background roles—and call cut. You get to speak up, shift gears, and direct the energy toward your next breakthrough. It is important to have the insight to recognize when your thoughts are sabotaging you and know what to do to change them. Dispute your negative thoughts with truths. Once you begin to argue the negatives, you realize that they are mostly lies, stories you are telling yourself that just hold you back from reaching your potential and finding joy.
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QUIZ: "What Kind of leading lady are you?"
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Are you playing the lead role in your life—or stuck in a part that doesn’t quite fit? Whether you’re a bold star, a behind-the-scenes visionary, or somewhere in between, this quick (and seriously fun) quiz reveals your Leading Lady Type—and how to step into your next scene with purpose and power!
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You’ll learn:
✔ Your unique strength and role in your life’s “movie”
✔ Common mindset blocks holding you back
✔ A few power moves to help you rewrite the next scene
✔ Bonus: a special invite to go deeper if you’re ready to step into the spotlight
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Plot: Your Life, Your Vision
Dream big and make it happen.
What’s a story without a plot? Your life isn’t just a series of random scenes—it’s an unfolding journey with meaning, direction, and purpose. Your plot is about setting goals that align with your values, following your dreams, and mapping out the steps to get there. Remember, every heroine faces twists and obstacles, but it’s the way she moves forward that makes the story unforgettable. Take some time this month to write your own “plot points”—those next brave steps that bring you closer to the life you imagine. Use these questions to guide you:
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What’s the “big storyline” I want my life to follow?
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What small “plot points” (goals, milestones, adventures) can I create to move the story forward?
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What obstacle is currently challenging me—and how can I reframe it as a stepping stone in my character’s growth?
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If my life were a movie, what would my heroine-self decide to do next?
Once you get out of your own way and start thinking in a manner that launches your forward, you can begin to manifest your dreams and create a plan for making things happen.
REEL LIFE FAVORITE books FOR MINDSET & MOTIVATION:
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1. Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
​ I quote this on my Life Coaching page and think this book is an absolute essential for living
authentically and developing emotional intelligence, so important and often lacking.
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​2. Success Is Not An Accident by Tommy Newberry
​ There are so many great questions and techniques for helping to set and achieve goals and getting out
of your own way to do so in this book.
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​​3. Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers
I tend to let my many fears get in the way of doing things. This is a classic book for helping to work
through those fears.
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4. How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have: A Practical and Spiritual Guide to Personal
This was one of my first mindset books after getting my Life Coaching certification and I absolutely love
how he makes sense of so many ways of thinking and gives tips for working through the difficult stuff.
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​5. You Are A Badass, by Jen Sincero
I love this book for the wit and humor while she gives it to us straight up and encourages you to
recognize how awesome you truly are.
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6. Tackling Toxicity by Mauricio Velasquez
​ Mauricio is a personal friend and on an important mission to make the world a better place. We all deal with toxic people from time to time, or sometimes daily. This book is your guide for maintaining
boundaries and dealing with these people gracefully and effectively. A must read.
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7. Relentless Positivity by Joe Martin
Great book for mindset tips and sticking with fitness goals, told in an easy, humorous style.​​​
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8. Speaking the Truth in Love by Ruth N. Koch and Kenneth C. Haugk
​ One of my favorites because it teaches how to effectively communicate setting boundaries assertively instead of aggressively.
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